I’m one of the nicest guys you’re ever going to meet.” Due to the sense of helplessness and resentment this pattern inevitably produces, Nice Guys are anything but nice. When this life strategy fails to produce the desired results - as it often does - Nice Guys usually just try harder, doing more of the same.

The Nice Guy Syndrome represents a belief that if Nice Guys are “good,” they will be loved, get their needs met, and live a problem-free life.Nice Guys are especially concerned about pleasing women and being different from other men.In general, Nice Guys are peaceful and generous. Nice Guys avoid conflict like the plague and will go do great lengths to avoid upsetting anyone. They are happier when they are making others happy. Nice Guys are concerned about looking good and doing it “right”.Five decades of dramatic social change and monumental shifts in the traditional family have created a breed of men who have been conditioned to seek the approval of others.My summary and notes include the key lessons and most important insights from the book. Glover explains what it is, how it came to be and provides forty-six exercises to help Nice Guys break free.If you are a nice guy or think you may be, I highly recommend reading this book and doing the exercises. The single best book on the Nice Guy Syndrome from the guy who invented the term.Dr.

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